One thought can change it all. Just one idea in your head. It’s all about how are your ideas. To get context about what I am talking about, let me get into a real event first. For the major part of my life I had this idea in my mind that I am not good looking. When I was child I believed this, I had this idea in mind. I don’t remember where it came from but it was there. It was not that true. I was decent looking. But I believed all this time that I am poor looking. This idea ruined many things in me. I started believing this so strong that I was scared of looking at mirror. I didn’t look at mirror for many years. Sometimes I was surprised when I saw my pictures and find myself good looking, but the other idea in my mind was so strong that it never believed this thing. It was just one idea but it ruined so many things in my childhood.

So, just one good or bad idea in your mind can change hell lot of things. It can change totally how you think or even how you look. You can find such examples in your daily life. Whenever something goes missing in home we always suspect the home servant. It’s an idea in your mind and it changes so many things in your mind. The moment you get this idea in your mind all activities of servant start looking suspicious. And suddenly when you find your thing back you realize how wrong you were. It’s the power of idea in your mind.

I was playing with children in my sister’s play school and it was interesting to see such little children already having ideas about themselves in their mind. They are certainly created by their parents and the environment around them. Some body is shy, somebody is playful, somebody is naughty. At this point we can put in some ideas in their head which can shape them for future. This certainly needs to be taken care about. Colleges and schools should focus on putting in ideas in child’s head instead of putting loads of information. While a few people can generate ideas in their head most of people can’t. And it’s very easy to generate negative idea in your mind rather than generating a positive idea. Because positive ideas require lots of positive energy. And we are surrounded by negative energy around us. Picking up negative ideas is easy, there is so much negative energy around us we can pick it easily. If you are good at cricket in your childhood, most people around says you are not. And this negative energy brings negative idea in your head. And a very few people at that stage get away from this negative energy and generate a positive idea about themselves.

Generating positive ideas is very important. We need to learn this art of generating positive ideas ourselves. If you believe that you are good at something, you have to retain this idea in your mind , somewhere and it will do the trick. Just keep positive ideas in your mind about yourself and you are done.

After college, we are no more students. We are now supposed to work and earn money. This is and idea transferred from one generation to another. We have this great social setting. Either you study or you earn money. There is no other situation. I suddenly wondered. And surprisingly enough I too had this idea in my mind until I thought the other way last night. I was actually conditioned by society.

We are conditioned with the thought that If you don’t earn money you are not a good person. Earning money is considered as the top criteria for a human to be good. But its totally other way around. For a person to earn money he needs to follow some tactics, some tricks, some rules, do something unwanted, undesired, everything that is not a basic human instinct. You have to be clever enough to earn money. So that means if you are earning good money you certainly are doing something quiet inhuman. And the person who is unable to earn money is actually a good person without all these traits. So actually he is the good person. I am not saying that every person who doesn’t earn money is a good person. But a person who is capable enough to earn but still unable to, is most likely to be a good person. It’s very clear. Look at two doctors, both have same degrees and both have equal knowledge yet one earns lots of money and other doesn’t earn that much. So what’s the reason? The first one is clever enough and other one is not. And cleverness is not a good human trait.

Social structure makes this condition even worst. They make the other person believe that he is not good person because he doesn’t earn good money. And people around also believe this. I think a person who can’t earn money is simply more human yet. I have an uncle. And he is good at so many things but not earning money. He is full of ideas, he writes poem, he listens to songs, fond of gardening, he is good looking, he is smart. There are very few person around us who are that good. Seriously. But the only thing is he doesn’t like to earn money. This is simple. A person with such thoughts and ideas, can’t be clever enough to do common jobs and work. It is that simple yet so complicated. For the most part of my life I heard bad things about him just because he doesn’t earn enough. I know there are few bad things about him but that’s natural. There are many people around me who earn hell lot of money yet with sucking personality, no ideas, no thoughts, no interests, nothing. And yet they are considered very good in society. If you want to earn money it’s fine, but if you don’t really want to that should also be very fine.

I know its all about conditioning. We are conditioned to think like that, either you work or you study. If you do any third thing you are considered bad in society. And society is a an old concept. It was required in ancient times when there were many dangers in living alone. Now there are none. Societies should be abandoned. There is no need for them now. Humans can live without them now. Its time for concept of society to expire. There should be interests groups not societies. Why I need to be in a society where I don’t want to? And because of that there are all these problems.

The most disappointing part of all this is that not only the previous generation but also this generation think like this. I am fine with the previous generation thinking like this, but come on, I expect this generation to think the other way. We have everything require to think like that but yet we don’t. Human character and traits should be the highest priority for judging anyone and yourself. I know many people who are great human being but yet live in this idea that they are not good just because they can’t do few things they are supposed to do good like, taking an interview or writing some exam. And why this thing still exists? Why instead of respecting people with ideas and thoughts we are respecting people with money ? Because, at some point of time we all go through this. Some one is poor, someone is not good at writing exams or facing interview, feels bad, changes himself and than become like everyone else. So when his time comes, he behave same way with someone yet to become inhuman. Time to rethink.